Tuesday, July 7, 2015

Finding a life partner isn't all about sexual chemistry but spiritual chemistry, Right?


It takes more than sexual chemistry to keep a solid loving long lasting relationship!

Learning to love yourself more is a beautiful feeling. Ladies if a man is really interested in you he's not going to be into you only for sex or money. Your body is a temple of God and certain guys really don't deserve your awesome package deal!



How do you know the difference of when a man is really into you for the right reasons from the start? 


1. He's not a money gold digger, he's passionate about the kingdom business and encourages you to also keep chasing after the things of God

2. He speaks highly of you to others and shows you not by just words but his actions that he's very attracted to you because of your mindset

3. He doesn't mind spending money on you or helping you out when you really need some financial support and he's also very passionate to help you invest in your career or business 

4. He does love opening up to you with his emotions not just sexual conversations but spiritual conversations and is consistently striving to maintain building a loving relationship with you

5. He is open to ask for good wise Godly counseling for himself and loves to also include you into those people he seeks good counseling from, he sees you as his help mate not hell mate

6.  He loves to make you smile more than cry tears of hurt, laugh, he shows you off to his family and friends

7. He doesn't make excuses for his flaws but owns up to his half but tries his best to fix his faults he just doesn't like to disappointment you, he keeps his promises 

8. He isn't self centered he likes to sometimes share certain things with you, just the way you show him. He speaks to you with respect and in public places

9. He isn't into cheating or playing games with you, he does get jealous because he cares about you but it's a controlled jealously not harmful, he certainly loves to do actions to make you see that you can Trust him when he's around you or not

10. He enjoys your company much, sometimes he just 
doesn't want you to go...
but he respects that you have to... 
he loves to romance you often as possible...
leaving you with good thoughts to think about 
during the course of the day...


Your life partner helps to bring out the best in you, even at your worse he/she will stick by your side and help you to keep uplifted as you also do with him/her.
Love yourself more today and keep sowing those good hearted seeds it will come back to you triple!

Monday, July 6, 2015

THE WORKING & BUSINESS MOTHER'S

THE WORKING & BUSINESS MOTHER'S

HOW DO WE REALLY DO IT?
From working a day job, managing a business, going to school, 
managing the family life...


     Becoming a mother was a big change in my life, sometimes I still can't believe I'm a mother...not just to one child but three beautiful children. The challenge of being an active business mother can be challenging at times but our children are our biggest motivation along with God and having some caring people in our circle. It's amazing but before you become a parent you actually thought you were busy...saying this with a big chuckle laugh on my face. I am really proud of the super mother's like myself who are go getter's you been through some ups and downs but yet you still managed to graduate college, started your own business, working your day job(s), working out and striving consistently to reach your biggest dreams in life.


     How do we really do it super mothers? And still manage to keep ourselves beautiful inside and out, even when all hell breaks loose? Well...for me it's all about balancing my time, keeping close to God and keeping my stress level down. Even after having my three beautiful children I keep consistent with doing things that I love…the key is also ladies don’t lose yourself. I love to keep certain drama negativity out of my life as much as possible because energy is contagious and certain drama will certainly suck the energy out of you if you allow it to. You are in control of your own life not other people.

     This year 2015 have really taught me a lot so far about my personal goals and professional goals. I am happy to say that I have started a new chapter in my life journey, better relationships; I’m gaining more wisdom and knowledge, and becoming a better businesswoman. One of the most important thing I enjoy doing in my spare time is volunteering…Yes, I know where do I get the time to volunteer give back to my community? I try to fit volunteering into my busy schedule even for one hour because I’m a strong believer in sowing good seeds in the universe because good deeds do come back to you or your loved ones. I may not be perfect never will be but I’m certainly one good woman in good progress and I love the better woman that I’m becoming daily. My children motivate me to my best and because of them in my life I am certainly an unstoppable girl that also loves encouraging other beautiful women to keep loving themselves more and don't give up on your big dreams!