Saturday, February 25, 2017

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE, How does it impact our life ?

Emotional intelligence, we all as humans are always learning and want to be at our best in everything that we do, right? Unfortunately because we are imperfect human beings and we all learn on a different pace that means our comprehension capability to understand certain things won't happen over night but the more we educate our minds with wisdom on different topics such as career tips, parenthood and family management tips, financial management tips, spiritual investment tips, and a healthier lifestyle is the wiser we become and is able to comprehend meaningful information that is helping to sharpen our IQ level.

" Intelligence quotient (IQ) is a total score gain from one of many standardized tests designed to retrieve human intelligence. Emotional intelligence (EI) is the capability of individuals to recognize their own, and other people's emotions, to discern between different feelings and label them appropriately, to use emotional information to guide thinking and behavior, and to manage and/or adjust emotions to adapt environments or achieve one's goals " https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_intelligence

It's so true that those that loves to invest in the kingdom world, read books and socialize with like minds often tends to accomplish more goals in life, whether personal or professional goals. 

It's amazing what happens when we are eager to  improve our lives, walk fearless, stand boldly in Christ and  connect with like minds who knows that they are going to high places and is passionate about serving in the community. I've came to learn over the years how fear, a low self esteem and lack of wisdom can really limit ones progress in life. 

Who are our first teachers? Some of you might say, we are or our parents are our first teachers ? If you look back over the years and think about your current strengths or weakness, you will remember some good qualities and some bad traits you learned and adapted from your parents and the environment. Our environment plays alot into our learning development and the shaping of our character, for example those that are use to living with limited resources, not use to diversity, living in poverty, not having good nutrition management and not being around successful people tends to live in a closed minded box, you are not alone...so many can relate to this truth but then there are those who lived in poverty for years and decided to change up some of there circle of friends which helped them to stop thinking limited and start walking into the land of wisdom and wealth...it's so true that it's all in the mind? my question to you is where do you see yourself in the next five years? I'm sure you're going to say...expanding with wisdom, being more confident, living out my dreams and having financial freedom.

I wrote this to remind you that, God didn't make you to live in fear, the enemy likes to play tricks on your mind and manipulate your brain to think closed minded because he doesn't want you to experience the beautiful feeling of living a meaningful purpose driven life and accepting what God have in store for you. Soldiers in the army walk confidenty in God, they are self disciplined and usually conquer the impossible in life because they have much faith in the giant God they serve and believes highly within themselves.

EVERYDAY SAY THIS POWERFUL AFFIRMATION OVER YOURSELF,  No weapon formed against me shall prosper, I am NOT a slave to limited thinking, I shall remain focus on the bigger prize no matter what, I am coming out wealthier in wisdom, healthier and having financial freedom in Jesus mighty name amen!!!

" God is diversity, God sharpens our emotional intelligence well, 
just keep walking in the light, you are on the right track " 

Wednesday, February 22, 2017

THE BENEFITS OF LOVING YOURSELF

Loving yourself is a beautiful feeling and when you really love yourself it shows to the world. We attract loving energy into our lives when we learn to love ourselves because your confidence shines not only on the inside but radiates much on the outside.

Ladies, I want to remind you that you are a vessel of honor, don't allow anyone's negative words to make you think less of yourself. If you are a blessed mother like myself, just remember when you look at your sons or daughter’s adorable faces just remember the day you gave birth to your children, that love you felt when you held your newborn baby is just amazing...isn't it an awesome feeling? Your baby just gravitates to you naturally because it senses your warm gentle loving nurturing spirit. That feeling is the like how you need to feel about yourself...your inner beauty radiates not because of your shape or skin color but because you know your worth as a kingdom woman. Continuing to invest into your spiritual life is a very important key to keeping yourself beautiful...not just striving to eat healthy and working out. Don’t give up on following your dreams, just keep following your calling and using your gifts to glorify the kingdom business, yes Jesus have great things in store for you and your children future.

Never settle for less than you deserve...your heart is very precious to God and you only have one life to live, you mean the world to God and you are the apple of God eyes...just look back at how far God brought you from? A mighty long way and he still loves you through thick and thin. Women empowerment is my passion, congratulations to all the women of honor who have decided to walk away from a toxic relationship, in order to break unhealthy relationship patterns we must take the first step and that’s letting go of anything that doesn’t serve your health and spiritual life well. You couldn’t do it without our wonderful father Jesus help. Keep God as the number one person on your throne because his love is everlasting and Jesus will guide your life.

Every day when you look into the mirror, say a few of my affirmation quotes to yourself: 

" I accept myself I am just right the way God created me to be, he's just making me better "

" I refuse to accept any toxic energy from anyone because God doesn't plan harm for my life I am the author of my own book, a new chapter in my book starts today...I love myself more today to let go of anyone who is mostly pulling me down "

" Today I shall embrace my beautiful smile more and share some positive words of inspiration with the people I come across because when I cheer others up it helps me to cheer me up"

" I am an imperfect woman and that's OK, God knows that and is making me better and healthier " 

" I love myself because God doesn't make trash, my tears, my pains, my scars are just a sign that I'm meant for greatness "

" My children are looking up to me, I only want my children to remember me as an proverbs 31 woman. My daughter is modeling me, like mother like daughter, we are gems "




                                  
                                            " Confidence shines well doesn't it? " Love the skin that you're in...
                                                    
                                    

That's me on a film set in New York City... Actresses glowing!
February 21, 2015
Supporting the cause to stop " Domestic Violence "